Hibiscus


My mom’s favorite flower was the Hibiscus.
It’s no wonder, given they are symbolic of:

  • Persistence
  • Courage
  • Strength
  • Resilience

However, I doubt she loved them because of their symbolism.

It is more probable she loved them for their:

  • Persistence to propagate throughout the summer.
  • Courage to create buds to bloom beautifully towards the world around them.
  • Strength to sustain vibrant colors which enhanced the natural beauty of green trees and the green-grassy-yard.
  • Resilience to ruin from pesky pests.

She would often hold a bloom against her face, feeling its velvety texture, and proudly pose for a photo. She grew many types of flowers, but none brought her as much pride and joy as her Hibiscus.

As I look at my potted hibiscus on my back porch, with its velvety soft pedals producing abundantly, I embrace the spirit of my mom. She was one of the most courageous, persistent, strong, and resilient women I ever knew. I am proud I could call her, Mom. Even though she may have not given much thought to their symbolism, these flowers provide a profound symbolism for me — of her.

Published by matters of the heart

Retired from corporate world. Thriving in retirement. Travel is the best educator, and I try to do as much as possible with my husband. Mother of one adventurous daughter; survivor of breast cancer 21 years ago; author of memoir: Matters of the Heart--A Cancer Journey that is available on Amazon.com.

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