My mom’s favorite flower was the Hibiscus.
It’s no wonder, given they are symbolic of:
- Persistence
- Courage
- Strength
- Resilience
However, I doubt she loved them because of their symbolism.
It is more probable she loved them for their:
- Persistence to propagate throughout the summer.
- Courage to create buds to bloom beautifully towards the world around them.
- Strength to sustain vibrant colors which enhanced the natural beauty of green trees and the green-grassy-yard.
- Resilience to ruin from pesky pests.
She would often hold a bloom against her face, feeling its velvety texture, and proudly pose for a photo. She grew many types of flowers, but none brought her as much pride and joy as her Hibiscus.
As I look at my potted hibiscus on my back porch, with its velvety soft pedals producing abundantly, I embrace the spirit of my mom. She was one of the most courageous, persistent, strong, and resilient women I ever knew. I am proud I could call her, Mom. Even though she may have not given much thought to their symbolism, these flowers provide a profound symbolism for me — of her.
